it's 2012!




the first week of 2012 has come and gone! we're feeling so blessed over here because already, our january days have been filled with good food, quality time with each other and close friends, and fun, new things.

pictured: a gift of homemade (!!!) from my sweet coworker. my very first hockey game (ducks v. sharks. a yummy vegetarian meal. a sleepy puppy ball + lululemon (of course, i'm addicted). a little something from anthropologie. a meal and an almond twist to go at pain du monde (the best bakery in orange county).

happy 2012!

the new year is always filled with such hope and anticipation for me. it makes me so happy to know that in the continuum of time, there is that small change that signifies a fresh start.
my intention this year is to make every moment count, to be present, to savor, learn, absorb. to spend more time being immersed in whatever it is that i am choosing to do. and reminding myself that there is a choice.
mindfulness over multi-tasking. peace over production. minimalism over materialism. 
time is a gift.
         
[iphone photos from our today's lovely sunset adventure in corona del mar with the sweetest family i could ever ask for. no better way to start the new year].

a reminder for the new year.


i've been thinking about the upcoming new year. i've broken out my new planner, made a few lists, but in the end, i'm a visual person, so photos win. i made this mini-inspiration board to remind myself of the little joys that i want next year to be filled with:


home-cooked meals
champagne with appetizers & wine with dinner
book club meetings
long conversations
journaling. lots of it.
reading in bed
the peace & simplicity of being home
scented candles
beauty. beauty. beauty.
rest
intellectual challenges
hard work
photographs
husband. winston. family.

this next year, i'm choosing to be more grounded. to look around me at what i already have.  to practice contentment and simplicity. to really take the time to enjoy a meal, a conversation, a book, a project. i'm choosing to make art, to give my full attention to things that matter to me, to read more, learn more. i'm choosing to appreciate beauty in small doses: a vase of fresh flowers, a campfire-scented candle, a stack of unread books. i'm choosing to spend less: less time, less money, less energy... on things that just aren't as important. i'm giving myself permission to decide when to hibernate, work, play. i'm giving myself permission to do my own thing. i'm choosing to value my time, my money, my energy, my resources. i'm choosing to make 2012 the best year yet.


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merry christmas!

we're so happy to be celebrating our Savior's birth with family and friends. wishing you all the peace, joy and beauty that surrounds this season.

love,
david, ruth, and winston

[holiday card from minted]

the hoffmans.

we love the hoffmans. they're one of the coolest couples we know. steph & zach introduced us to bananagrams and cafe rio, and they are always game for hanging out, even when the activity is watching one of dave's notoriously and unintentionally awkward movie picks.

so when it came time to take christmas card pictures, we made a double date out of it. we took our cameras to a little place off the 133 and took turns taking pictures for each other. these are a few of my favorite snaps from the sesh.

                

this grateful heart.

In the all-day cooking fest that was Thanksgiving, I didn’t spend time reflecting on what I am thankful for. So here’s my list:
dishwashers – and pretty much any other automated cleaning device. my puppy, who takes every chance he get he  can get to jump in my lap. my full bookshelf – and for literacy and it’s importance in society. my new iPhone – because I don’t have to constantly “borrow” Dave’s camera anymore. this wave of contentment at that God has blessed me with, especially after some of my previous waves of consumerism and materialism. our tiny apartment, dirty carpet and all – so much love has happened here. family – for being in my face, challenging me constantly, and showing me just how powerful love is. for homemade cinnamon rolls – because they are life-changing, and I will never go back to those canned imitations. for girlfriends and book clubs and joint birthday parties – those make the world go ‘round. and Smartypigs – for making saving so easy. for the most patient husband there could ever be. Chinese classes – for reminding me that sometimes goals are just about working hard. for work, but also days off of work, when I can relax, study, eat breakfast, read a book, and think about so many of the things that I’m thankful for.

happy halloweeeeen!

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Last night, Laur and I hosted our very first Halloween party! Hubs and I dressed up as a web and black widow, with the little guy as a cocoon.  We sipped on signature cocktails with lychees and branded cherries, and we ate swamp chili, devils on horseback (addicting!), deviled eggs, chocolate “pate,”  and so many other delicious things. The best part, though, was spending quality time with our friends. That just doesn’t happen enough.

a day in malibu.

from start…
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[brunch at Taste in the Palisades followed by a tour at the Getty Villa]
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to finish…
[a stop for seafood, of course]
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These pics are from a while back, which just goes to show how bad I am at blogging, but better late than never, right? And it’s just fun to look back on how adventures are different in each season.

bon iver.

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last monday, we saw bon iver live at the shrine auditorium. CRAZY GOOD. the instrumentals were so rich, and the mood was just magical. their new album is fantastic, but my favorite part of the night was the last song before the encore, for emma. they had the whole audience standing up, feeling the music, swaying and singing. such a brilliant night.

happy autumn.

I love every season, I really do. I love the changes that mark each season and all the little things that make each season special. Longer nights mean more game nights with friends, fireside scented candles, home-cooked meals. Colder days mean printed scarfs, polka dot blouses, weathered leather bags, chunky sweaters, jeans tucked into boots, and morning lattes. I love that fall brings a fresh start, a new school year, a new syllabus of my own (coming up this week!).

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This fall, I’m trying out new things. Daily 7:15 a.m. workouts, a Chinese language class with UCLA extension, regular hot yoga classes, more happy hours and restaurant favorites on the agenda [pictured: R + D kitchen, the Library Alehouse], and more nights that involve reading books in bed.

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I’m hoping for slower days, more cuddle time and afternoon naps. This fall for me is going to be about making lots of personal and lifestyle changes (inspired by this month’s Whole Living mag). I want this season of my life to be more contemplative, more deliberate. Less about being busy, and more about being productive. Less multitasking, more quality time.

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I’m embracing this new season.

it’s august, and we’re camping.

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We bought our very first tent (yes, cute was a factor) and tagged along on a family camping trip to Malibu Creek State Park. The temperature was scorching inland at the campsite, so we headed to Zuma Beach for a glorious afternoon of sunshine and sea breezes. Hubs helped cook dinner, and my cousin made blackberry Mountain Dew cobbler in a dutch oven with coals (makes me wish I could have been a boy scout). We ended the weekend with a trip to Malibu Seafood and an evening showing of Guillermo Del Toro’s latest, Don’t Be Afraid of the Dark. Even though our getaway was just a little over 24 hours, it felt like so much longer, as all getaways should.

Can’t wait to get some campsites booked up for next summer! Sleeping under the stars on summer nights is a dream.

our bay area vacation in iphone photos [part one]

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This past week, we house/dog-sitted for a great couple I’ve known from middle school. Winston got a few lessons in puppy social skills, and we had some time to relax in the cutest little bungalow. Of course I took way too many iPhone pics. Highlights (there were lows too, like um, visits from an unfriendly neighbor, but vacations are about focusing on the fun) from the first part of the week :

  • mango & sticky rice (world’s best dessert) in downtown Walnut Creek
  • homemade happy hour with brie and muscato
  • homecooked dinners
  • early evening walks with the pack (Lucy, Ellie, and our little guy)
  • cookie-sized macarons from Bouchon
  • reunions with old friends
  • smoked tri-tip lunches and leisurely drives
  • a HUGE scoop of ice cream from San Francisco Creamery
  • studying for the GRE outdoors in the sunshine
  • glasses of wine in the evening (from Cupcake Vineyards, of course)
  • randomly finding a cafe and realizing it was Tartine (their bread pudding was the best I’ve ever had, and the Mexican wedding cookies were delicious)
  • ordering in pizza and quality time with our little guy (and his new doggie friends)

Not pictured:

  • Stonehouse olive oil and endless food discoveries in the Ferry building
  • cinnamon rolls for breakfast on multiple mornings
  • morning strolls downtown
  • afternoon naps in a bed v. afternoon naps sitting upright in a van in traffic on the 405
  • quality time with my sweet parents

Crazy how days just fly by. More photos to come.

bittersweet.

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Last night, husband sold the car that has been a part of his life since high school: a 1966 Dodge Coronet with plates that came practically customized for him. He rebuilt the car with his dad, took it to prom, and to college. That car transported us (and subsequently broke down on the side of the 405) on our first Valentine’s day. We rode in it on our first date to the Santa Monica Pier and 3rd Street Promenade. The first time I drove to Irvine with David was in that car, with the windows rolled down and the music blaring. And just over two years ago, we waved goodbye to our best friends and family amidst a cloud of bubbles and drove away in it to our first night as newlyweds and the beginning of our marriage.

so thanks for all the memories, Blue Bomber!

you will be missed.

[all photos by Raya Carlisle]

my baby munchkin turned one!

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My puppy baby turned a year old this past Sunday! I can’t believe that how fast the little guy has grown… he didn’t even weigh two pounds when we got him. He makes us so happy every day with his furry cuddles and nuzzles and endless puppy kisses. We can’t imagine life without this precious fur ball as a part of our little family.

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happy birthday, Winston!!!